My [29f] boyfriend [36m] has completely stopped engaging in conversations about marriage.

I'm so happy for you. I seriously hope I can find a relationship like that one day! My current dude played the "I don't want anything serious" game at the beginning, avoided talk of commitment, etc... then seriously dumped the "L" word on me while drunk a couple days ago. I was like what the fuck lol? Now he's like "I have more feelings than you" and it's like... well I took you at your word and didn't develop them. I'd have to be a moron to fall in love with a man who never even officially asked me to be his GF. We've been seeing each other 4-5 months. I'm pretty sure he shot this "relationship" in the foot early on because I haven't been taking him seriously or thinking of him as a permanent fixture in my life, and that is difficult to deprogram without like...epic action on his part, which I don't see coming. The "L" word ain't gonna do it.

Dating sucks

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