Age isn't the issue here and you and other people are moving the goal that I set when I posted the thread. I will always love my wife regardless of what she looks like. This is about something I would like rather than something I need. After all the wild assumptions being thrown around about my intentions towards the woman I've spent my entire adult life with, I've started to not care how I come across. I'm done justifying to strangers just how much I love my wife and the mother of my children. I'm not going to apologize for valuing sexual attraction in my marriage though when it's been one of a number of mutual priorities for the past 11 years.