Do you know if they remained in contact after the incident? Did they still talk every now and then while you were together?

They don’t talk. In fact I noticed that she became quite distance with not just him, but with both of us after he and I got back together. She used to come over all the time before, but she stopped. I really only see her if it’s just a girls thing, or when it’s a big group gathering.

How would you feel if you didn't get back with him then found at your bestfriend slept with him and didn't tell you till after 3 years?

I don’t know as that’s not what happened. But I would probably look at her differently. It’s just such a strange thing to do. Of all the people in the world, you go for a friend’s ex? Really?