You are also very careful to word things in an ambiguous way....

I'm sorry, but my mothertongue isn't English and many of the studies I've read and many of the professors I've talked with are from France, Germany, Switzerland and Austria.

Being a teacher doesn't mean that you are some sort of epidemiology expert.

I've never claimed that.

But the fact that women have a unique experience doesn't negate men's experience.

Every person has a unique experience and depending on which culture you live in, it will probably be similar to that of people with similar backgrounds etc. (gender being one of the factors).

Not playing a .... who has it worse...game.

Sure, but I fail to understand why it was needed to be talked about how this experience is felt for women. Being a victim is tricky for everyone and comes with personal challenges. Not being able to report it is just one possible issue amongst many.