I hear you, there’s a lot of people who won’t out of desperation or otherwise though unless there was not already some type of interest, on some level. agree to disagree. the only person who can answer that question is her, and she’s not here to weigh in.

in this particular situation, whether people believe she’s an overnight lesbian or not, the fact still remains it seems like she / this is a lost cause.

orientation aside you can’t have a marriage with someone who repeatedly betrays trust, vowels and has no consideration for her partner nor an interest to fix it.

harping on which gender she prefers literally doesn’t change that fact.