Second this,

Marriage counseling = wife is ALWAYS the victim of the situation...

More than likely marriage counseling will prey on your empathy and pity and you’ll be stuck in an unhealthy relationship forever.

STOP trying for children with “Susan” because if she gets pregnant you’re fucked:

Either you’ll be living in this marriage for life, or should you choose to split—be stuck paying alimony and reparations to her for life.

As unstable as Susan may be, she lied (omitted) to you for the entire time period that you two were dating up until you were engaged/married.

If not for the mere principle of lying—because women do this to men all the time—then leave her for the sake of your own mental health and sanity.

Imagine how she will be should the both of you grow old together..