My (39/m) husband wants to kick our (17/m) son out as soon as he graduates.

Parents had rough years when I was younger, but had it together by the time I graduated. They changed their mind on helping me 1 month before hs grad. I went to uni. Worked full time, full course load, zero money.

But they did buy a boat, new car, summer cottage.

I don't talk about this with them, but it'll never be forgotten. My uni was hard. Never enough sleep, if I went out I was the poor guy nursing a single beer and order of fries. Lol.

My parents still don't understand why I moved away. But a couple of my aunts gave them serious crap when they claimed I didn't really need any help, which was really awesome to hear about.

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