I think my best friend is in an abusive relationship and I'm not sure what I should do

I just said it's not okay or normal, and that it really worried me... I wasn't sure what to say to be honest. She gave a lot of excuses, she said she thinks she just has a low sex drive and that he needs sex more often. Also that he told her he thinks she "likes being forced" which she told him she doesn't. I got the feeling that somehow he's using that to justify it, like that he thinks she has a kink or something, but I think he knows it's BS. She does have trouble saying no or being confrontational, so it's so upsetting that he just ignores her.

I'm not sure if he would be violent, but he's a cop so he has a gun on him constantly and she's mentioned feeling worried about that before. But I don't think he's ever done anything to suggest that he would.

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