My BF (29) constantly wants to have sex with me (F27)

As a dude with a similarly high sex drive, I'd say you're a keeper. Really nice that you're open to compromises. And good that you're thinking abt how to limit it before it goes too far. I've pushed a girl to the point of totally losing her libido and it ended up killing the relationship and I really regret that tbh. She was sweet.

Anw, just laying out the context of where I'm coming from. He can definitely tolerate something less than his ideal of 2-3 times per day IF HE WANTS TO BE WITH YOU. He surely knows he'll never meet anyone who can do it that often forever, girls just get burnt out like that. So it's a matter of how high a frequency you can enjoy and how low he can go and if there's overlap, and if he wants to compromise or move on. Personally, I find once a day with a few breaks occasionally leaves me pretty happy with the state of things.

You're gonna have to discuss it with him frankly. He might decide to move on, but if he does then you just gotta accept he was never really in it on the same level you were to begin with.

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