yeah i mean i agree with everything you’ve said. it’s just tough because everything in our relationship is great other than this. and to be fair i haven’t been perfect either. i originally lied to him about the number of people i slept with which was a huge betrayal of his trust.

he is definitely being manipulative in some situations, and may have an issue with drinking, but we are both in college so we both probably drink more than we should.

i guess my point is that neither of us are perfect and we’ve both made mistakes in this relationship but i think it’s worth salvaging.

but at the same time, i can’t make someone trust me or forget about something that continuously bothers them.