My BF wasn’t happy about me hanging out with a male friend. I tried to reassure him by saying “Oh come on, he’s way out of my league”

As long as it's two-sided it's ok. Sometimes I go a little off the deep end and my boyfriend is there for me and helps ease my nerves. The same thing happens with him sometimes. But you shouldn't feel like another person's entire mental well-being is on your shoulders. That is unhealthy.

I used to be really bat shit but then I dropped everything and put myself in a really shitty living situation until I got a better grasp on things and saw how I was treating people. I was the "always a victim" kinda girl.

Don't put more into a relationship than you're getting back whether it be affection, respect, gratification, whatever it is you need to feel balanced and happy

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