I'm pretty sure hes fully aware he can leave if he wants to if anything if anything hes the one who wants to work things out and wanted me to go on the trip and wanted his mom to plan that I would attend to the trip but it just didn't turn out that way and I'm guessing because there was so many people going they just couldn't fit me in. But hes fully able to leave the relationship if he wants to I'm never held him captive to be with me and hes a grown man he can do whatever he wants. I just don't get why people are taking this so horribly saying that it would be obvious to leave me behind when we were fighting even though couples do that we are not we have not fought in day and things have been better recently His mom isn't even around enough to know anything about our relationship on a deeper level I know all she knows is that we love each other and that we have problems but we get over it and she always has treated me like her own.