My boyfriend (19M) lies… a lot. Help me (19F) understand? I am OP.

All of these comments make me sad. I am SO sorry you are going through this. First off, just know that who you are dating now, is not going to be the same version you get in coming months, years, ect. We are CONSTANTLY growing up, changing, ect. That being said, the person I was at 19 is not the same person I was at 20. The thing with young relationships, is people tend to forget that people are growing up. We make mistakes when we’re young. We learn boundaries, we learn how we want to be treated, ect. With that, 19 is still young and he still has alot of growing up to do. That being said, if you want this to work, a tough love conversation is going to need to happen. (Where he sees this relationship going, if he actually thinks it’s going to work, if he’s willing to work through issues that come up) I believe in that conversation, you need to let him know how much you love him and how bad he is hurting you. I have been through a situation similar to this and it makes my heart hurt for you friend. Take that information how you will. This too shall pass.

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