My boyfriend (21M) is weird about the hoodie that I (20F) bought before we started dating

You’re not crazy, at least on this issue. He sounds neurotic and immature.

Still, while you’re certainly not wrong to have or wear a men’s sweatshirt, you have to choose your battles. You could have simply chosen not wear it when he’s around. Or you could have said his (irrational) feelings are more important than a sweatshirt and given it away. But you not only chose not to do this, you’re going out of your way to irritate your significant other and are willing to throw away a relationship—over a sweatshirt. You sound petty and immature too.

To be honest, I don’t think either of you are mature enough to be in a relationship.

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