So you are projecting then...?

I'm a woman, but let me tell you I am so tired of hearing about women viewing themselves as some sort of gods gift to the world. No I'm not some supressed woman, or a raging feminist...but I believe in equality. Some women feel that men owe them the world no matter of shitty they behave, how they bad they communicate, manipulate and orchestrate drama around themselves. There are women out there who demand constant attention, support, understanding but are very selfish in their own ways unwilling to compromise, to give a bit of themselves, to make an effort or to actually come down to earth again. If you want to be treated like the queen you believe you are, then treat him like a king.

Well I realise that this is not the appropriate place for my rant, and I should direct it elsewhere. This person under the alias, mehwhocares actually just triggered my annoyances. In fact, judging by your terrible advice, you remind me of one these supposed bitter queens who still cant figure out that they too are very much responsible for their own failures in their personal lives. Hell, I'm not assuming I know anyone here, but, its what comes to mind.

OP if you want your relationship to work, stop thinking of yourself as a victim. Your partner feels the way they do, because, that's the way the perceive life right now. Yes is behaviour is not okay, and I would take necessary measures to make him understand and listen to that. But you need to come up with your side of the deal. What are you going to do about this situation? What efforts are you going to make? Would it be expected of him to hang around for another four yearsat this rate? While you make no commitment to adjust or change? or are things just up in the air. Sometimes when we look so critically at our relationships, we also need to look critically at ourselves- just saying.