My boyfriend and I broke up for a month and he slept with 5 different people

It isn’t cheating, but if he lies that they’re just friends after the relationship resumes and won’t break it off... lmao; he should have the decency to say he wants an open relationship because I don’t believe for a second that this dude is just having a normal sex-less situation with people he had a three some with. Basically it seems to me like he found someone who is a couple with an open relationship that knows what they are and comes home to his boyfriend and reassured him that there’s no sex when he’s not around.

My take is the OP hurt is boyfriend; and after the boyfriends low, he’s going to do what he wants and doesn’t value much respect to the OP; and will say anything to keep his boyfriend happy while now going off behind his back. I mean; I personally don’t blame either; but I wouldn’t put up with it; and if he does. He should at-least accept the reality because if he doesn’t... that’s not having self respect or a healthy relationship and I personally think that’s high school childish behavior.

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