The other thing is that women who are capable of a relationship (and loyalty and properly taking care of her man) WANT you to own them. This is a universal truth, wherever you live, no matter what age or time or culture. They may not exactly phrase it that way if it seems inappropriate to say it like that, but trust me thats what they all desire.

Now if a woman doesnt want you to own her or wants her independence then that means that she doesnt want a relationship. Those women arent for relationships. Unfortunately there are a lot of those nowadays. But sometimes it may also just mean that she doesnt want to be owned by you. She could submit to another man, one she deems to be better.

Thats just how they are. Now a lot of softies nowadays arent capable of accepting or understanding this, but thats how it is.