My boyfriend doesn't enjoy blowjobs

Some people are suckers. Some people are suckees.

Personally, I honestly can't even FEEL much down there when receiving. There just isn't much sensation for some reason. I don't know if it's because the (albeit few) guys I've been with just weren't good or if I've desensitized too much down there from porn and stuff.

Either way though, don't take it as an insult. Just cuz a guy doesn't wanna do a certain thing does NOT mean he doesn't want you. If I was in your BF's position, I wouldn't be thinking "I don't want you." I'd be thinking "shit, he wants to do this, how do I be honest and try to make it up to him?" It took me a while, but I've accepted that receiving just ain't my thing. Sex is way better when you know each others limits and work together on what DOES work without forcing anything.

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