What you're expecting of him is not unreasonable at all but I can guarantee that you've been made to feel like the jealous, unreasonable and controlling girlfriend.

The conversation you had with him isn't finished because the issue hasn't been resolved so you need to be very clear and concise with him. Tell him what he is doing is not only hurtful but incredibly inappropriate and it's not something you're willing to compromise on.

Resentment just grows and it'll seep into every conversation and action if it isn't resolved and it will be miserable.Trust and respect should be the foundation to every relationship, trust and respect has to be earned and following pornstars and not caring about your feelings on the matter shows a lack of that.