My boyfriend keeps saying he'll come sleep over at my place, but won't actually do it until I really ask. It's annoying and I'm starting to question things. How can I handle this?

No problem.

You literally have a conversion with your bf. Suggest doing it in a quiet place but it can be public depending on your joint preferences and Peccadillos. And there and then, talk with him. Express your desire to spend time together. Express your willingness to see him as he is comfortable. Express your attraction in terms of wanting to spend time with him meaning, let’s cuddle, let’s walk hand in hand, let’s fuck (not to be vulgar but be intimate is less crude but equally true).

But most of all, express your understanding that he may be feeling awkward because of your family situation, and you respect his needs and feelings too.

Does that help?

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