Yeah you’re right. But he’s just as controlling. I literally have no friends but he’s a bum I’ve been working since Jan of this year he got a job in April after I told him if he didn’t I was going to leave (Controlling Ik). But at this point we were living in a hotel together. I just don’t know how to help him grow up but if you were living with your girlfriend why would you want to spend the night elsewhere it throws me off. I ask him to put himself in my shoes and he admits he’d be just as pissed even if I asked from the jump to spend the night he’d say something like “why so you can go cheat on me.” He would not be happy at all