My boyfriend and I get off by him choking me until I pass out. I am well aware that it isn’t safe, but we both find it so hot. How can we do this safely?

I’m not sure you understand what “intent” means under the eyes of the law. Allow me to present this scenario:

“Your Honor, ladies and gentlemen of the jury: The defendant had the presence of mind to record the consent in the event that this situation occurred. The defendant had the presence of mind to attempt to cover themselves in the event a trial like this ever took place. This means the defendant knew and understood that this might be the outcome and did it anyway. The defendant had every intention without reasonable doubt to strangle their partner until they suffocated to the point of losing consciousness. It’s for this reason, you must find the defendant guilty.”

How does that play out for your theory?

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