My boyfriend says it’s not his fault I can’t orgasm from PIV

I agree with your bf: it is not his “fault” that you cannot orgasm from PIV - because statistically only 25-30% of women can.

What is his responsibility is to make an effort and care about your needs. I my experience 80% of women’s ability to orgasm is in their heads. But this is obviously closely related to how I behave.

If she is really into me and I am able to focus 100% on her joy (and all women can feel if you really care... it is about communication and willingness to make an effort) then it is much easier for her to cum....

If he does not intrinsically understand this then you have to teach him... I guess few bf’s don’t want to please their gf’s? But based on Reddit posts many don’t have the knowledge to do so?

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