My boyfriend told me that he touches me when I’m asleep

Well then if he is clearly aware that you do not like it... why are you still in a relationship with him after all this time? I'm sure by now you must have had many talks with him since he often did it. Yet clearly it does not seem to go through his head. Something is missing.

Whether he had been doing it from year 1 or year 6, I know 6 years is a long time for 2 people to know their limits and usually there aren't that many.

Hence my statements stand:

Should you mad? No. Because after all this time, it is still going on and you're letting it happen.

Are you mad? Yes! Because after all this time, it is still going on and you're letting it happen.

This isn't about victim shaming. I do not tolerate if someone blatantly (sexually) violates someone, especially in their sleep, thinking that they are in a long time relationship, so it's ok. But when it's been going on for a while now and nothing was being done about it, I hold both parties equally responsible.

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