My Boyfriend is Toxic But I Love Him

With all due respect, people like you are the absolute worst

Lemme give ya a piece of advice that you wont believe is true until you're much older

Love isnt the most important thing a relationship, not even in the top 3

Only a young woman cries out in the midst of a debacle, " . . . but I LOVE him!!!!!!" This moment occurs in almost every LifeTime Network Channel Movie, right as her world is destroyed and everyone is telling her for the 1000th time to get out of the relationship. And I laugh every time I see it.

STFU.

Love is NOT all you need.

Love will NOT keep you together

Love will NOT conquer all

Love is important, but it's SEVERELY overrated by young and dumb people. Too many Rom-Coms and the like.

When you finally hit rock bottom after dating these idiots, you'll figure this out.

Someone who is not dysfunctional and has their shit together, laughs WITH you, respects you, wants to be with you, and cares about YOUR happiness as much as their own . . . THAT's like 85% of what you need. If these things are not there, who the F cares if you "love" him? You cant make it work without these things.

I stopped reading after the first paragraph because I know it's just details about loser guys who have the maturity of a 10 year old and you still grace them with your presence allowing them to use and abuse you and right now you just get off on that excitement. But eventually it all comes crashing down and you'll regret it all

Lemme repeat, people like you are the absolute worst. You're knowingly doing stupid things that are going to lead you to disaster and right now you're like, "Well, I just love him and cant explain why . . . "

Aint nobody got time for that.

You're not a victim here, grow up.

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