So it sounds like you like games with actual set goals. I’d recommend Skyrim to you or even Zelda breath of the wild. I’m not sure if skyrim is multiplayer yet (or if that ever came to fruition). But maybe you and your brother can find common ground by just talking about these games if you have them in common. I don’t think he’s looking for you to actually enjoy his recommendations. I think he just wants your company in one way or another. (Sorry, I know this isn’t the answer you wanted but he’s trying extra hard. Give him a chance.) also ac can be overwhelming at first but just relax or go super hard on the nook goals. It’s whatever you make it. Feel free to dm me if you need a ranting buddy that isn’t your brother.