I also have the option of just staying with his parents temporarily, too. It does seem put in an odd way, and I never said I was doing her a favor. If anything, it was mentioned that she doesn't have to do what she does for me and that my ex, as unusual as it seems, did offer to at least help me with finances and getting the things I need since I'm pregnant, but she also refuses that. It's not like I'm really saying, "Well if you expect me to be here..." it's more so that I do have other options open and even an option where you won't be doing the store runs and whatnot, but she still refuses if it means keeping him out of the picture as much as possible.

It's actually funny, because my mother has also been emotionally abusive my whole life and I even took to the narcissistic parent subreddit several times, so it's more so that she's been driving me crazy for as long as I can remember.

Many things are my limitations and I always try my best to clean up after myself at least, but sometimes the nausea and fatigue hits so hard that I can't finish what I'm doing. Even when I express this to her (as I've always done with other things growing up), it just never settles well with her because literally everything must always go her way regardless of a person's limitations.