My SO checks out girls who look nothing like me.

I could be wrong, just outside looking in and this is online so there are many details that are not there for an accurate judgement. Maybe not "settling" as much as maybe realizing what he has. You said it yourself he went out there and was with those girls and even had one but realized that it wouldn't work. Same as how I feel if I left. I've been growing to love her more and more and realize what I have but it's hard to stop that little voice sometimes and there is always the mind games we play saying "what if". I truly don't believe in true love that never ends, I think that's a pipe dream but maybe I'm wrong and maybe thats just my mind because I see it too often when things tarnish and feelings become less and listening and talking to each other doesn't work like it used to. That happens with time and I just don't think people are meant to be together forever because we change so much and stop listening to who is supposed to be our best friend, partner, and loved one. I'm 26 and in my first "real" relationship too and it is amazing but you know... just got to see how it develops from here. You have already went through the separation and he came back and hopefully more dedicated so don't listen to me and don't let me put doubts in your head. Guys look at girls and I don't think there is a girl out there to completely sweep me off my feet and even then I'd probably still check out some tight jeans walking by because it's just like a magnet but at the end of the day we are eating, shitting, and sleeping humans. What matters is how we work through problems, communicate, and drive each other to be better and as long as we are both happy the rest will find it's place. lol I hope I'm not sounding like a rambling dick head. Life is incredibly perplexing.

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