I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that. I completely understand though and I also struggle with co workers who either genuinely don’t get my struggle and think it’s okay for me to cheat on my diet (under their terms) or are just flat out petty about it. It’s one of those strange aspects of the human condition that I tend to forget happens until I start getting healthy - there’s always going to be those that cheer you on, and a select few that can’t help to put you down because of their own insecurities/lack of motivation. Really sucks you have someone actively trying to tempt you though, but I’m glad you didn’t give in.

If you want to have a cheat day and eat a snickers, make it on your terms and not simply to appease others.