My crush is soon going back to her boyfriend. What should I do?

Here is the deal. Things not just happened accidentally.

I fixed my eye on her 1 year ago. I chose her and approached her intentionally so that she clearly knows that I am interested in her.

I want to be with her and I planned this whole story all along.

Here are the facts: -I like her and she knows that, because I've shown my interest, asked friends about her etc. -She likes me too - she made the first step when we kissed the other night, she sent me a message out of nothing the other day, she looks at me, smiles.

Here are the possible scenarios from my perspective:

  1. She thinks I am jerk because I stopped writing to her. She will go to her boyfriend and forget about me.
  2. She thinks I am jerk because I stopped writing to her, she will go to her boyfriend and will miss me and probably they will break up and she will approach me.
  3. She understood what I meant when asking about her boyfriend and will think if she really wants to continue her ralationship or no.
  4. She is confused and doesn't know what she is doing at all. She acts emotionally and will forget about this when emotions quiet down.

I don't really know what is going on. Well she has a boyfriend, that's fine. But hey, they are not like married or engaged. I wanted her to question her relationship and if she is not happy, they could break up. I don't know.

And by the way what is perfection? You mean I should go out there and flirt with a lot of girls. I've never "found love" and I am not good in relationships. Usually girls aproach me first as I am not very social.

This is the girl that I approached and I chose exactrly her and I chose to do this. I cannot just say "well it won't work". I created this i don't wanna leave it - I want to build on the foundaries I made.

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