My dad and his wife called me fat today

In your life you are always going to come across people who are going to challenge you, treat you poorly, or otherwise be a "shithead."

Your goal should not be to appease them, but to strengthen your mind and be a humble, secure, and successful person. The most direct and genuine way to become a confident, secure, and pleasant person is to achieve.

Therefore, all you need to do is to continue your path to success (whatever that means to you), you've already made it a long way, and I bet you can surprise yourself if you really put your mind to it.

Continue to be a winner, win for yourself, for the people that are important to you.

Then, if you can, win for your community and for the world, but its alright if you just win for you and your loved ones. Very few of us can be saints

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