Oh good lord! That is beyond ridiculous! So sorry you have to endure all of that.

Maybe you should ask them how they expect you to ever even be in a relationship if you never have sex? (You dont' have to tell them it's not true). Since you'll refuse to have sex as long as you're not sterilized. And men will not date women, let alone marry them, if they know she won't have sex with them.

And no, using birth control is not protection enough against unwanted pregnancy. No sex is the only way.

So, there goes that whole "what if you meet the right man" argument. You wouldn't meet him, let alone date him, since you won't have sex with him. Which means no men will be interested.

The only way you could meet and enter a relationship with the "right" man would be if the man had a vasectomy and was firing blanks. Which defeats their purpose. You wouldn't be having kids that way either.