Whoa haha. You think i’m NOT having success with women? The problem isn’t hooking up or talking to them. That’s the easy part. The problem is, what makes the trait of never being in a relationship a red flag. I know enough to understand what makes me “desirable”. What I didn’t understand was why not being in a long term relationship came off as a red flag. I guess being in a relationship isn’t something that was meant for me. See, I simply asked why it was a red flag. I never asked, “How do I convince someone to be in a relationship with me?” Don’t try to twist the premise and make it seem like i’m the one having a problem dating. I simply had a question on perspective. And that was one perspective I didn’t understand. Aside from that, I understand how to carry myself enough to where I will get choosing signals, and I know how to go about keeping a woman interested. And if you had continued reading, I stay out of relationships because I was taught that it was a waste of time, and that I should focus more on making money, starting a career in doing what I love, and enjoying my “options” before I decide to settle down. I’m guessing that’s unfamiliar territory to you though. Considering that the only thing you saw from that post was, “I think your frustration speaks for itself.” I’m not looking for a relationship, I just needed input on perspective :). Try using your head next time. I don’t see you giving any useful information to help this guy out. It seems like you came here to try and argue with me more than anything. Glad to know that how I carry myself on the internet seems to be keeping YOUR interests in me pretty high too.