My SO does not seem to take "no" for an answer. I don't know how to deal because he sees my boundaries as being "difficult". Please read details

The very scary part of this whole situation is that it sounds like your SO is also a therapist and should be aware of his issues. He knows what kind of behavior issues he has from a clinical stand point. He also knows your areas of insecurity from a clinical stand point and seems to be triggering you. That is very devious and malicious. The apology he gave you sounded like a perfect therapeutic apology. It was a little creepy. Sorry to be so harsh. I am also sorry you are experiencing this kind of treatment. Do you think going through couples therapy again would be productive? Seems like he would give the expected answers while in therapy but not change his behavior at all. Therapy could be a last resort for you to make a solid decision if this relationship will work. Good luck and please keep us posted.

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