Think of it from the perspective of the girl: You’re trying to live your life, and somebody you don’t know begins to harass you with sexual messages. Would you not be frightened? This is a complete stranger. How would you feel if some guy you don’t know began to sit outside of your house/apartment all the time and started leaving notes underneath your door? Would you feel like your privacy was invaded?

It’s never even crossed my mind to do something like this, so I can’t say I understand your mindset at all. It sounds like you are still angry at the system and the girl for getting caught and punished rather than being truly sorry for what you did. You need to learn some introspection. How can you expect to be successful in a career when you still don’t seem to realize the gravity of what you did?

Nobody should be punished for mistakes they make in youth for their whole life, but it doesn’t sound like you’ve matured much since this incident. Sorry if you find that offensive.