Go back and read the post, people like you are the minority. When the boyfriend has to be up early in the morning to provide for the two of them and she’s up all hours of the night in bed belting her favorite songs, he shoved her. There was no act of aggression and the incentive wasn’t to hurt her or do her harm. She has the right and freedom to sing but not at the cost of others sleep and comfort of their own home. Because if you really want to we can sit here and talk about noise complaints and havoc claims. You all think the world is 2-D and Black & White, when it’s not. You all expect everybody to be perfect but in that situation I’m sure you’re going to claim you would’ve gotten out of bed, put on your monocle and explained to her like the proper gentleman you are on how poorly she was acting IN THE MOST TOLERANT WAY POSSIBLE, that she was wrong and initiated a 25 minute long debate on the informalities of singing past a certain time. Every night this happened in the post, and every night he kindly asked her to stop, so again we can sit here and talk about how she disrespected his wishes constantly and how she was emotionally & mentally abusing him by not respecting his wishes and depriving him of sleep every night, but no it’s easier to say “HES ABUSIVE, TOXIC MASCULINITY HURR DURR” like shit the fuck up already, he didn’t close his fist and drive it through her mouth, he touched her and nudged her and told her to shut up.