My(f16) brother(m18) has ill-intentions for a summer camp job he landed

Everything he said was in the backyard with his friends on his party. I wasn't eavesdropping; I was with the kids as most adults were with adults and other younger kids, I was with him and the ones closer to our ages

Some of the bias you mentioned, I kinda saw as relatability along with surprise that he would make a joke like that, but also talk about it with his friends about how their uniforms and other things along those lines that just came off as surprising. What made me question his intentions was how he was talking up his summer job as an opportunity to be around them, and some of the words that stuck out as derogatory, just made me concerned and want another opinion about it, along with my background in the same sport

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