It was dumb of me to rely on him in the first place but he insisted. Said things like he would take care of me and now it's I'm taking advantage of him when that wasn't what I wanted at all. I didn't want to rely on him for this long but it ends now. I mean...the money in our joint account was money that I had put there when I first moved in with him to cover my expenses in case I lost my job.

And yes, that's the plan. But I can't overwhelm her with stupid bullshit like this. I want to be there for her more than anything and I'm trying to figure out ways to get her to now that don't include asking my "boyfriend" for any help...cause he's proven he's not gonna do jack shit to help me.