No its not ridiculous. Thats actually quite typical for rape victims....or victims of any kind of abuse, really. But no....this is totally fucking rape you are dealing with. You explicitly and repeatedly made it clear you were not consenting. This is not someone that just thought it'd be hot to wake you up during or didnt think you would mind.

BUT THE SCARIEST THING HERE: Is that he did not do it to get his nut off. He didnt it for power. He wanted to use you. He admitted it. He is fucking getting off over the control here. This is typical of rapists. Rapists dont usually rape just bc they are horny. Its the power/dominance dynamic. Thats what they get off on. This guy is a fucking predator and a public threat.