My [f45] bf [m54] texts a new female friend *a lot*

Your reply struck me because you said that you got different kind of mental stimulation from your female friend then you got from your girlfriend. His conversations with her that I’ve seen or that he’s told me about seem to be very similar to conversations with me. So I’m really not sure what he’s getting that’s different.

I know one person cannot fulfill another persons every need, and that it is good to have a variety of different kinds of people in your life, and having friends is always a good thing. I guess my only concern is that he barely “knows“ this person and seems to have really quickly come to enjoy conversing with her, to the point he noticed when they haven’t spoken for a few days.

I have male friends. I can go months without hearing from them and not wonder why. Now that I think of it, the same can be said of my female friends.

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