my family has graduated from not giving a single fuck about me to now warning me before they invite my rapist over

I'm so sorry that you're going through this , but I'm glad you're working on getting the fuck out of there.

fwiw I went through the same thing before my family moved. I was raped and frequently molested by my older sister when I was a child, and after she moved out she would frequently come by to do laundry and when I mentioned being upset by this my parents would act as though they had no idea why this would bother me. Then after a while they started warning me so I could either leave and return when she was gone, or take a sleep aid and just be unconscious until she was gone lmao. Thankfully we've since moved to somewhere much much smaller and now my sister lives somewhere where she can do her own damn laundry so she literally has no reason to come by unless something comes up. In the past two years she's only come by once, which was horrible but tbh it's still better than once a week like before.

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