Is it my fault for bringing up sex? - RANT

You can't complain about the age gap when you affirmatively matched with him, even initiating the spicy talk yourself. And if you wanna talk about it, then talk about it frankly. Don't beat around the bush trying to keep things so "clean" some people aren't gonna pick up on your vague hints.

You're under no obligation to stay on that topic or any other, but you should be aware a lot of guys are just trying to speedrun getting into your pants and being really forward, really fast is only going to encourage those men to push boundaries. I don't think asking vague questions about one's preferences is a great way to test for sexual compatibility anyway. Just move to meeting in person quickly and see if the physical chemistry is there or not, if you're so inclined.

/r/Bumble Thread