Yeah I absolutely understand how that can make him double think, but it’s impossible for him to be the father unless he’s been lying to me about when he moved away, or if his sperm can live for 14-21 days. And I care 100% about how this affects him. It’s just when asked, he won’t tell me what steps we, he, can take to ease his mind about it and get a real answer. Or how I can help. He answers all questions with “I don’t know” and “no I don’t believe the child is mine”, it’s just super confusing... with us having a baby on the way, I don’t want him to keep going back in the future to look at somebody else’s child when he’s got one right at home.. I guess it hurts because like you said, I have confronted him in the past about it. So this is a recurring issue that we have no solution for it seems.. I asked if he’d like a paternity test for himself and if he’d like to message her and he just shuts me down with “no”.