My fiancés sister found this on her facebook newsfeed and my jaw dropped when I saw this very public rant

If I'm being totally honest, I judged one set of people at my wedding for their gift; but that was way less of a wedding thing and more of a family tradition. In my family it's customary for the aunts and uncles to gift nieces/nephews $250-500, and the cousins to give $150-250. It was a little surprising to see that my aunt and uncle who are very well off give $100, while their kids each gave us more than that. I sent them a very nice thank you card and would never mention it to anyone aside from my sister, my husband, and anonymous internet strangers, but I think it's fair to say that at least some people have those thoughts.

Just to clarify there were a lot of other people who gave less than that or no gift at all and there is zero judgement there. I had a great wedding with friends and family! I just don't have a great relationship with that aunt and uncle and they recently dicked my father out of lot of money after my grandmother passed away (like, $250K, which, again, they do not need as they both make over 6 figures a year and own multiple homes).

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