3. My fiance (29M) and I (27F) used to have a long distance relationship running fo...

My fiance (29M) and I (27F) used to have a long distance relationship running for 3 years. We just moved in together, but I feel like there is no room for me in his life

I've just moved entire countries to be with my now husband. We lived together for 3 months in America where we got along swimmingly. Once we went back to his life in Ireland, things got harder. He didn't come home as often, talk as often, went out more often, and now I feel like a hopeless shell of a person. I just got my temporary resident stamp so I can work. Honestly, I'm terrified of finding work. I know I have to, I'm putting on too much financial burden by not working.

How am I getting over this? I still text him from time to time. We have added in cuddle time and us time. Every week we have a day/night where we just focus on being together. He realizes that I left my entire life behind for him and it is fucking hard. He lets me do chores around the house until I find my feet here. He has brought me to his work game nights and has brought me to a work friend's house where I met his wife and we are friends. We are even going to a convention together! Find time just for yourselves and make room for each other. It's possible. You've got this!

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