My gf wants to have a gender swap and is mad that I wouldn’t continue our relationship

In what ways though? Other than the obvious genetic differences, there are trans women out there that are pretty much identical to cis women in terms of looks and (uh for lack of a better term) sensations. What I’m saying about the race argument is not that not being attracted to members of a race is racist- you’re allowed to have preferences on what you find attractive after all - but if there was someone of another race who you did find attractive, but you were deterred from dating them purely because of your negative impressions of their race, that would be racist. And wtf even is that argument? Just cause doing something makes you racist doesn’t mean not doing it makes you not racist. Obviously you can be racist towards people you’re attracted to, tryna find where i implied you couldn’t.

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