My GF won't work, I gave her a 6 month limit to shape up. Its 5months and 1 week, is it ethical to move forward on this?

I wouldn't put a time limit on her getting a new job, but I absolutely would put a time limit on her seriously getting off her ass and looking for a new job. And that time limit is about 2-3 weeks. So if she wasn't actively treating finding a new job as a full time job...

...Yeah, the curb is over there. Move that way before my foot breaks off in your ass; 'cause we're done.

OK, OK... I know. It's easy to sound tough when it's not my emotions on the line and not my heart being broken. The larger point is that what you're asking/saying is NOT unreasonable. If she doesn't have a real job in 3 weeks you have no reason to feel guilty when you show her lazy ass the door.

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