3. My girlfriend [27F] or 3 years puts no effort into her appearance anymore and I'...

My girlfriend [27F] or 3 years puts no effort into her appearance anymore and I'm [27M] not attracted at all. I feel like an ass and don't know what to do.

I definitely wouldn't have started dating her if she was like this in the beginning. Beside the general funk the pseudo-science-y stuff is just a massive issue. Like I can't even talk to her about these things because it just really frustrates me. And I'm not even like a scientist or anything, I work in marketing. She follows the whole "if I can't pronounce the ingredients I don't use it" philosophy which just...whew. I can't even start with that shit.

At the same time we've been together for 3 years. It feels so stupid to just give up when the majority of that time together has been amazing. And she's still mostly the person I fell in love with. Same sense of humor, same long-term values and goals. We've shared so much together and she's my partner. I can't even imagine her not being a part of my life anymore.

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