You were definitely disrespectful and pushy with being sexual towards her even though she refused you two times before. That can make anyone feel used and coerced on doing something that she didn’t want to do on the first place. She probably feels like she can’t trust you anymore, which is the base of any healthy relationship. Also is good that you recognize that telling her her flaws while she was opening up on how she felt that night was a big mistake. I think that you should give her some time away from you. Don’t communicate with her, leave her alone, she needs time to process this. Let her be and don’t push her for answers or to take you back. You are going to have to learn to live with this and not do it to anyone else ever again. You should look into professional help, and see what made you coerce her like that. For her wellbeing I would call this relationship quits.