My girlfriend (30F) and has started distancing herself from me (34M)

Honestly it sounds like she wants to have her cake and eat it - by that I mean leave you but still have you as a close friend... Perhaps so if she does leave you, maybe for someone else, you're still there when things don't work out individually which is not okay nor fair.

She listed off reasons why she was distant and saying the things she was rather last minute, in what is possibly an attempt to exhume herself of all guilt by saying you're the one with a problem, you don't communicate and you don't show enough affection, because when you tried to counter her she still said she wasn't sure.

OP I don't know her reasoning although I don't believe she's being entirely honest but in my opinion it's best to break up. I think you can do better than someone who clearly isn't interested and is making excuses. It's not fair on you.

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